FLAUNT! Find Your Sparkle & Create a Life You Love After Infidelity or Betrayal Archives with Lora Cheadle
The Shame of Betrayal – Making Decisions That Help You Heal
08-09-23 The Shame of Betrayal – Making Decisions That Help You Heal The shame of being the betrayed partner can be stifling, making us feel unworthy, afraid, or like we were to blame. Living in a state of fear, shame, and judgment cuts us off from our resources and...
How to Face Your Toxic Partner (or the Whole Darned Patriarchy) & Win Every Time
08-02-23 How to Face Your Toxic Partner (or the Whole Darned Patriarchy) & Win Every Time The recent Barbie movie brought to light the impossible situation that many women face when dealing with a patriarchal society. Namely, the system is rigged and there’s no...
What’s The Difference Between Coaching & Counseling?
07-26-23 What’s The Difference Between Coaching & Counseling? What’s the difference between coaching and counseling after infidelity? I couples counseling the way to go, or is coaching a better option? Why is it so difficult to recover from an affair? What does...
How to Regain Your Balance When You Can’t Get What You Want
07-19-23 How to Regain Your Balance When You Can't Get What You Want How to find balance and equilibrium after the rug has been pulled out from under you? Like a teeter totter, what goes down, must come up. This episode explores three practices for finding your...
How to Understand & Navigate the Fragile Male Ego
07-12-23 How to Understand & Navigate the Fragile Male Ego In this episode, Lora dives into the fragile male ego and its impact on navigating relationships affected by infidelity. She shares insights on societal expectations and upbringing that contribute to men...
Grow Up, Queen! How to Have Difficult Conversations
07-05-23 Grow Up, Queen! How to Have Difficult Conversations In this episode, Lora shares communication strategies for overcoming betrayal and rebuilding relationships. She provides insight about how to move from the archetype of Princess to the archetype of Queen so...
Intimate Conversations with Betraying Partner Shawn Cheadle Part 3 What Happened After the Affair?
06-28-23 Intimate Conversations with Betraying Partner Shawn Cheadle Part 3 What Happened After the Affair? Special Seven Year Podcast Anniversary Series Part 1 – What Led to the Affair? Released June 14, 2023 Part 2 – What Happened During the Affair? Released June...
Intimate Conversations with Betraying Partner Shawn Cheadle Part 2 What Happened During the Affair?
06-21-23 Intimate Conversations with Betraying Partner Shawn Cheadle Part 2 What Happened During the Affair? Special Seven Year Podcast Anniversary Series Part 1 – What Led to the Affair? Released June 14, 2023 Part 2 – What Happened During the...
Intimate Conversations with the Betraying Partner Shawn Cheadle Part 1: What Led to the Affair?
06-14-23 Intimate Conversations with the Betraying Partner Shawn Cheadle Part 1 What Led to the Affair? Special Seven Year Podcast Anniversary Series Part 1 – What Led to the Affair? Released June 14, 2023 Part 2 – What Happened During the Affair? Released June 21,...
Betrayal – It’s Not Just a Personal Problem
06-07-23 Betrayal – It’s Not Just a Personal Problem Being betrayed sends you into a tailspin of shock, heartbreak, pain, and grief. Worse, it inspires a sense of shame, secrecy, and fear of judgement or blame from others. But the truth is, betrayal is not just a...
Self-Defense & Personal Safety After Betrayal – with Chris Natzke
05-31-23 Self-Defense & Personal Safety After Betrayal – with Chris Natzke Learn the ABC’s of self-defense and how to keep yourself safe. Whether things have been volatile since learning of your partner’s affair and you fear for your safety, you are concerned...
Bridging the Gap Between Heartbreak & Healing – with Lee Harris
05-24-23 Bridging the Gap Between Heartbreak & Healing – with Lee Harris Infidelity and betrayal leave you heartbroken, shattered, and wondering if you will ever be healed, happy, or whole again. This show takes you beyond healing and catapults you into a vision...
How Being Broken Sets You Free to Define Yourself & Embody Who You Are
05-17-23 How Being Broken Sets You Free to Define Yourself & Embody Who You Are Infidelity and betrayal shatter your soul and leave you feeling broken, empty, and confused. But what if this shattering was an opportunity for the pain, toxicity, and everything that...
What to Do When You Don’t Know What to Do
05-10-23 What to Do When You Don’t Know What to Do Nobody can be prepared for the unexpected, and betrayal is typically unexpected. Discovering your partner’s infidelity leaves you with a multitude of decisions that you suddenly have to make, even when you are...
Guilt, Shame & Empowerment After Your Partner’s Affair
05-03-23 Guilt, Shame & Empowerment After Your Partner’s Affair Why do I feel guilty, like I somehow caused my partner’s affair? This question is one of the most perplexing aspects of betrayal recovery. While the answer is NO, you did not cause your partner’s...
Your Subconscious Love Language – Understanding Love & Association
04-26-23 Your Subconscious Love Language - Understanding Love & Association Gary Chapman’s “Five Love Languages” explain our conscious associations and desires around love. But what about our subconscious associations and desires around love? Whether you had a...
Divorce, Finances, and Dividing Your Assets–with Lisa Zeiderman, Esq, CFL, CDFA
04-19-23 Divorce, Finances, and Dividing Your Assets–with Lisa Zeiderman, Esq, CFL, CDFA Finding out that your partner had an affair is devastating. Not only do you have to navigate the shock, grief, and emotional trauma of finding out that the person you loved...
Perfection, Self-Worth, and Affair Recovery
04-12-23 Perfection, Self-Worth, and Affair Recovery If you are anything like most of the women I work with, you are an amazing woman who tries hard to do things right. You’ve done the heavy lifting in your relationship, responsibly taken care of everyone and...
Why Affairs Run in Families, Epigenetics, and Breaking Unhealthy Family Dynamics – with Johanna Lynn
04-05-23 Why Affairs Run in Families, Epigenetics, and Breaking Unhealthy Family Dynamics – with Johanna Lynn Affairs rock your world and change your life. But they also help you understand deeper truths such as why you love the way you love, how family history and...
Coffee With “The Librarians” – Channeled Wisdom for Humanity
03-29-23 Coffee With “The Librarians” – Channeled Wisdom for Humanity This week we’re bringing you a very different show! We’re bringing you a full hour of universal, channeled, wisdom to help you on your betrayal recovery journey. Lora channels a group of entities...