FLAUNT! Find Your Sparkle & Create a Life You Love After Infidelity or Betrayal Archives with Lora Cheadle
When He Says He’ll Change: What Real Recovery From Porn Addiction Actually Looks Like
09-02-26 When He Says He’ll Change: What Real Recovery From Porn Addiction Actually Looks Like With Sathiya Sam, Founder of DeepClean™ After discovering pornography, infidelity, or other secret sexual behavior, one of the hardest questions isn't simply Why did he do...
How Do You Know If Your Unfaithful Partner Is Really Changing?
08-26-26 How Do You Know If Your Unfaithful Partner Is Really Changing? --With Sam’s Healing Podcast After infidelity, promises can sound reassuring—but how do you know whether your partner is actually changing? In this episode, Lora Cheadle talks with Sam from Sam’s...
How to Make Decisions After Infidelity When Every Choice Feels Wrong
08-19-26 How to Make Decisions After Infidelity When Every Choice Feels Wrong After betrayal, every decision can feel catastrophic. Stay or leave? Give more grace or set a harder boundary? Invest in support or save the money in case you need it later? When your brain...
The 4 Phases of Betrayal Recovery, Part 2: Are You Ready to Move On—or Waiting for a Perfect Solution?
08-12-26 The 4 Phases of Betrayal Recovery, Part 2: Are You Ready to Move On—or Waiting for a Perfect Solution? Sometimes you truly need more information, more time, or more nervous system regulation before you can make a decision. But sometimes “I don’t know what to...
The 4 Phases of Betrayal Recovery: Are You Healing—or Just Learning?
08-05-26 The 4 Phases of Betrayal Recovery: Are You Healing—or Just Learning? After betrayal, it is easy to become trapped in an endless cycle of learning. You listen to more podcasts, read more books, study nervous system regulation, attachment, boundaries,...
From Powerless to Sovereign: Reclaiming Your Voice, Intuition, and Financial Power After Betrayal with Soochen Low
07-29-26 From Powerless to Sovereign: Reclaiming Your Voice, Intuition, and Financial Power After Betrayal with Soochen Low Betrayal can leave you feeling as though you have lost control over everything—your relationship, your future, your finances, and even your...
Why Feeling Good About Yourself Matters After Betrayal
07-15-26 Why Feeling Good About Yourself Matters After Betrayal with Jasmin El Kordi of Bluelene After betrayal, it can feel like every thought, every conversation, and every part of your life gets hijacked by infidelity. You are trying to understand what happened,...
When Betrayal Hits the Body: Sleep, Stress, Hormones & Healing With Karyn Shanks, MD
07-08-26 When Betrayal Hits the Body: Sleep, Stress, Hormones & Healing With Karyn Shanks, MD Betrayal doesn’t just affect your heart and mind — it affects your body too. In this compassionate conversation, Lora sits down with physician and functional medicine...
Stop Waiting for the Map to Appear
07-01-26 Stop Waiting for the Map to Appear Why clarity comes through movement — and why you need a path, not just more information. After betrayal, it is natural to want the whole map before you move. You want to know if your marriage can be saved, if they are...
A Decade of FLAUNT!: Truth-Telling, Betrayal, and Defining Yourself
06-24-26 A Decade of FLAUNT!: Truth-Telling, Betrayal, and Defining Yourself What ten years of podcasting taught me about exposure, revelation, and reclaiming who you are. FLAUNT! is officially ten years old, and this anniversary episode is both a celebration and a...
Don’t Let Their Affair Cost You Twice-How to Avoid the Legal, Emotional, and Practical Mistakes That Can Come Back to Bite You
06-17-26 Don't Let Their Affair Cost You Twice-How to Avoid the Legal, Emotional, and Practical Mistakes That Can Come Back to Bite You After infidelity, it's easy to make decisions from shock, fear, anger, and survival mode. But some of the choices you make in the...
What Are You Under the Influence Of? How Fear, Trauma & Other People’s Opinions Keep You Stuck After Betrayal
06-10-26 What Are You Under the Influence Of? How Fear, Trauma & Other People's Opinions Keep You Stuck After Betrayal After betrayal, everyone seems to have advice. Leave. Stay. Fight for your marriage. Run. Forgive. Never trust again. But when your nervous...
Will I Ever Feel Normal Again After Betrayal?
06-03-26 Will I Ever Feel Normal Again After Betrayal? One of the most common questions women ask after betrayal is: “Will I ever feel like myself again?” Because betrayal trauma and infidelity don’t just break your heart — they disrupt your nervous system, your...
Why Marriage Counseling Can Backfire After Infidelity
05-27-26 Why Marriage Counseling Can Backfire After Infidelity After betrayal, almost everyone says the same thing: “You two need counseling.” But what if rushing into couples therapy immediately after infidelity is actually making things worse? In this deeply honest...
Healing Betrayal Trauma: EMDR, IFS & the Real Reasons People Cheat
05-13-26 Healing Betrayal Trauma: EMDR, IFS & the Real Reasons People Cheat Infidelity doesn’t happen in a vacuum. And healing after betrayal isn’t just about “getting over it” or learning to trust again. In this deeply compassionate and eye-opening conversation,...
Why Being the “Good Girl” Keeps You Stuck After Betrayal (The Hidden Cost No One Talks About)
05-06-26 Why Being the “Good Girl” Keeps You Stuck After Betrayal (The Hidden Cost No One Talks About) If you’ve been trying to handle betrayal “the right way”—staying calm, being understanding, holding everything together—this episode will change how you see your...
Why Betrayal Makes it Feel Like Your Whole Life Was a Lie
04-29-26 Why Betrayal Makes it Feel Like Your Whole Life Was a Lie What if the most painful part of betrayal isn’t what happened—but what it reveals? In this powerful episode, Lora Cheadle explores why betrayal feels like your whole life was a lie—not because every...
Why Betrayal Lives in the Body: The Missing Piece of Healing After Infidelity
04-22-26 Why Betrayal Lives in the Body: The Missing Piece of Healing After Infidelity What if the hardest part of betrayal isn’t just what happened—but what your body is still carrying because of it? In this powerful conversation, Lora sits down with somatic educator...
Infidelity, Trauma & the Nervous System: Why Healing Is So Complex (and What Actually Works)
04-15-26 Infidelity, Trauma & the Nervous System: Why Healing Is So Complex (and What Actually Works) Infidelity is rarely simple—and healing from it isn’t either. In this grounded, deeply human conversation, Lora sits down with trauma therapist Dr. Monique...
Why He Can’t Stop: The Truth About Porn Addiction, Cheating & Compulsive Behavior in Relationships
04-08-26 Why He Can’t Stop: The Truth About Porn Addiction, Cheating & Compulsive Behavior in Relationships You keep asking the same question: Why does he keep doing this—even when he knows it hurts me? In this eye-opening episode, Lora sits down with former...





