Wednesday 7am&7pmET

FLAUNT! Find Your Sparkle & Create a Life You Love After Infidelity or Betrayal

with Lora Cheadle, JD, CHt

Heal From Betrayal, Reclaim Your Power & Thrive!

Infidelity changes everything—but it doesn’t get to define you. This podcast is for women who refuse to stay stuck in heartbreak and are ready to rise, reclaim their power, and rebuild a life even greater than before. Here, we go beyond traditional recovery, cutting through the misinformation and outdated advice to deliver real strategies for healing, self-reclamation, and stepping into sovereignty.

Join Lora Cheadle, someone who has walked this path and emerged stronger, as she guides you through legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual insights designed to help you break free from self-doubt, restore your confidence, and rewrite your future—on your terms.

You are not broken—you are being broken open. It’s time to stop merely surviving and start reclaiming everything you were meant to be.

Go to www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and download your free Betrayal Recovery Roadmap & Tool Kit!

Join Lora’s Facebook Group, Affair Recovery For Women: Betrayed to Brilliant – Flourish After Betrayal, for support, inspiration, and a community of others who have been where you’re at right now.

Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery advocate, coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women move beyond healing and into full transformation after infidelity. More than just recovery, her work is about guiding women to come back home to themselves—reclaiming everything they let go of along the way, breaking free from repeating patterns, and stepping into a life of confidence, clarity, and joy. Through energetic, emotional, and ancestral healing, along with legal guidance to navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions, she empowers women to rise, rebuild, and create a future on their terms.

After being shattered by her husband’s fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand that betrayal doesn’t have to be the end—it can be the beginning of something greater. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, ensuring that women don’t just survive betrayal, but use it as a catalyst to build the secure, sovereign, and fulfilling lives they deserve.

As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive, on-demand legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support, so women have the real-time tools and guidance to navigate every stage of their journey. She believes that infidelity doesn’t have to mean losing everything—it can be the key to reclaiming more than they ever imagined.

Learn More at: www.LoraCheadle.com

Broadcasts Weekly Wednesday 7am/7pmET

Lora’s  Theme~ Betrayal Recovery

Wednesday 7am/7pmET

Healing Betrayal Trauma: EMDR, IFS & the Real Reasons People Cheat

Infidelity doesn’t happen in a vacuum. And healing after betrayal isn’t just about “getting over it” or learning to trust again.

In this deeply compassionate and eye-opening conversation, Lora sits down with marriage and sex therapist Todd Creager to explore the real roots of infidelity, betrayal trauma, emotional safety, and lasting healing. Together, they unpack how childhood wounds, attachment injuries, shame, hypervigilance, and nervous system survival patterns shape both betrayal and recovery.

You’ll also learn how EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) and Internal Family Systems (IFS) can help both betrayed partners and betrayers process trauma safely, understand their protective patterns, and move toward genuine healing and connection.

This episode is not about excusing betrayal. It’s about understanding it deeply enough to heal.

Whether you stay or leave, this conversation will help you stop personalizing the betrayal, understand your own patterns more compassionately, and move toward clarity, safety, and self-trust.

Top 3 Takeaways

1. Infidelity is often connected to unresolved trauma, attachment wounds, and protective survival patterns that began long before the relationship.
2. EMDR and Internal Family Systems (IFS) can help both partners process betrayal trauma, regulate the nervous system, and heal emotional wounds safely.
3. Healing after infidelity isn’t about rushing back into trust — it’s about rebuilding emotional safety, understanding protective patterns, and creating real change over time.

Favorite Quotes
“You don’t just cheat. It doesn’t happen in a vacuum.”
“Life is generous. It helps us wake up to the parts of ourselves we didn’t know how to love before.”
“Healing is not about forcing trust. It’s about becoming safe again.”

What You’ll Learn:

• Why people cheat
  • Betrayal trauma and nervous system healing
  • How EMDR works after infidelity
  • What Internal Family Systems (IFS) actually means
  • Why hypervigilance after betrayal is normal
  • Childhood trauma and adult relationships
  • Why betrayed partners stay
  • Rebuilding trust safely
  • Emotional safety after infidelity
  • Processing trauma without retraumatizing yourself
  • The difference between understanding behavior and excusing it
  • Why healing takes time — even in healthy reconciliation

About Todd
Todd Creager is an experienced relationship therapist and sex expert specializing in couples counseling, marriage and intimacy.  From healing from trauma through EMDR therapy, to overcoming infidelity Todd has helped countless couples overcome the issues that they face – increasing their connection and communication.

Todd provides a variety of services and methods – from routine relationship therapy sessions to couples retreats and counseling relating to sex addiction and toxic relationships.  It’s important to find working solutions for each individual couple.

Located in Huntington Beach, Todd provides therapy to the Orange County areas of Newport Coast, Irvine, Corona del Mar, Seal Beach, Long Beach and beyond!

Todd is also an expert keynote speaker for topics including team-building, relationships, sex and more.

If you’re looking to book a speaking appearance in Orange County, the Los Angeles area or beyond, contact Todd today! https://toddcreager.com/

Check out Todd’s podcast, Let’s Talk About Love, Sex, & Infidelity, where Lora was a recent guest: https://open.spotify.com/episode/20TivMIVQD698pp18eiyHr?si=ZtQ_u1kUT8-nuUmMu4CVNg

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Don’t just listen—start healing.

Resources & Links

• Download your free Betrayal Recovery Guide: it’s linked in the show notes www.betrayalrecoveryguide.com
• Book your $97 Intro Session: https://introductorysession.com
• Learn more about Rise & Reign: https://loracheadle.com/rise-and-reign
• Follow on YouTube, Instagram, and Facebook @loracheadle

About Lora:

Lora Cheadle, JD, CHt is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, TEDx speaker, and author of FLAUNT! and It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal.

After uncovering her husband’s 15-year affair, she turned her own pain into purpose—helping high-achieving women reclaim their identity, power, and joy.

A trauma-aware coach, somatic therapist, and former attorney, Lora blends legal insight with emotional and spiritual healing for full-spectrum recovery.

She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!

Special Offers from Our Sponsors!

Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT

Are you ready to Rise, Reclaim, and Reign as the Queen of Your Life? Infidelity may have shaken your world, but it does not define you. You are powerful. You are worthy. And you are more than capable of creating a future filled with confidence, clarity, and joy.

I’m here to walk beside you, giving you the perspective, permission, and proven tools to transform betrayal into your greatest awakening. Whether through one-on-one coaching or my on-demand Affair Recovery Programs, you’ll gain the guidance and support to untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and step boldly into your next chapter.

Your transformation starts now! Learn more at www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com and visit www.LoraCheadle.com for even more resources and inspiration.

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Books By Lora

• International Book Award, Finalist Motivational Self-Help, 2021
• Tattered Cover Bestseller, 2019

Have you spent your life playing by the rules, only to realize those rules weren’t made for you? What if you could break free—from expectations, from betrayal, from the roles you were taught to play—and reclaim your true self?

FLAUNT! is your guide to stripping away societal conditioning, healing from the heartbreak of betrayal, and rediscovering the fierce, confident woman you were born to be. With humor, wisdom, and powerful, actionable steps, Lora Cheadle empowers you to rise above the narratives that have confined you and boldly choreograph a life that is smart, sexy, spiritual, and uniquely your own.

It’s time to stop living for others and start living for you.

Buy Now on Amazon, or wherever books are sold.

It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive 

Burnout isn’t just exhaustion—it’s a betrayal of your time, energy, and trust. This essential guide redefines burnout, exposing its hidden roots and equipping individuals, teams, and leaders with five powerful tools to reclaim their passion, purpose, and well-being.

If you’re ready to break free from burnout and step into a life of clarity, confidence, and fulfillment, this book is your roadmap.

Available now on Amazon. Download your free guide, BURNOUT UNCOVERED: Fostering Candid Conversations for Teams at www.ItsNotBurnoutItsBetrayal.com.

Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!