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While most everyone says they want inner peace, very few know how to achieve it. Learning how to develop the skills and habits necessary to find and reclaim inner peace is essential. Especially during this time of year and this painful season of life. In this episode Lora will walk you through the prerequisites necessary to finding peace and will give you practical strategies, daily practices, and filter questions that you can use to be OK on the inside no matter what’s going on around you.

Top take-a-ways

  • Rest: We cannot find peace until we know how to rest. Sadly, many of the activities we believe to be restful are more distracting than nurturing. Learn the difference so you can engage in activities that are truly restorative.
  • Stillness: Explore the significance stillness and being true to oneself, especially after feeling lost in a relationship, and how being grounded in self-awareness can shift perspective and lead to inner peace and the ability to “be still and know.”
  • Practical Strategies for Peace: Learn tangible strategies for cultivating inner peace, including a daily stillness practice, and how to identify blockages to inner peace.


  • Am I upset because I’m trying to control a person or situation that I have no control over? Remember that you have no control over anything except yourself! Usually this is the problem, right here!
  • Am I feeling self-righteous, resentful, or judgmental? Do I need to forgive myself and others?
  • Where am I right now? Am I in the future or the past? How can I stay focused on the here and now?
  • Where am I with my thoughts and emotions? Am I projecting or vomiting on others? What can I do right now to go within and process and re-regulate myself?
  • Am I in a loop that’s making me obsessive and crazy? How can I journal my thoughts and emotions and channel them into a story that has a beginning, middle, and end?
  • Am I grounded and centered or am I spinning and out of control? What can I do right now to better connect me to Mother Earth and allow her to hold me?

Read Lora’s Blog on Peace, Rest, & Stillness Here:

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About Lora:

Attorney, speaker and Burnout & Betrayal Recovery Coach, Lora Cheadle believes that betrayal uncovers the truth of what’s possible when we stop focusing on what was done to us and start showing up unapologetically for ourselves. She helps women rebuild their identity and self-worth after infidelity so they can reclaim (or find for the very first time) their confidence, clarity, and connection to source and create their own kind of happily ever after.

Get the support you need to find your footing, begin making sense of it all, and feel better fast. As an attorney, betrayal recovery expert, and survivor of infidelity I can help you find the clarity and confidence to create a life that you love on the other side of betrayal. Book Your Session Here:

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