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Dr Thomas Jordan Flaunt03-01-23 Can You Learn from the Past to Find (or keep) Love in the Present? with Dr. Thomas Jordan

Have you ever felt like your cheating partner “ruined” your idea of love and relationship, leaving you bitter and hardened? Whether it’s unpacking your own childhood trauma or processing the impact of your partner’s childhood trauma (that then impacted you) the good news is that whatever you learned, you can unlearn.

Top take-a-ways:

  • Why unhealthy patterns from childhood get replicated in adult relationships
  • How the familiar (even when it’s not something you want) feels safe and lures you in
  • Consciously making the decision to unlearn unhealthy behaviors or attitudes about love so you can find and keep the love you want and deserve – without drama.

About Dr. Thomas Jordan:

Dr. Jordan is a clinical psychologist and psychoanalyst in private practice in New York City. He is on the faculty of NYU’s Postdoctoral Program in Psychoanalysis, author of Learn to Love: Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life and founder of Dr. Jordan specializes in the treatment of unhealthy love lives and has been studying them for over 30 years.

Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!

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