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mapping the affair recovery journey flaunt01-18-22 Mapping the Affair Recovery Journey

Intentions are powerful, but without a map of how to get where you want to go, chances are, you won’t! Whether it’s healing from betrayal on your own, building a new relationship, or saving your marriage, you need a solid plan that strikes a balance between giving yourself enough time to process, while still holding yourself accountable.

Top take-a-ways:

  • Identifying and executing your most immediate next steps so you can get to where you want to go without spinning in circles or taking two steps forward, one step back.
  • Thinking of the route to who you want to be as a song, that consists of chorus, verse, and musical interlude. Understanding how the verse, the section of the song that moves the story forward, is done in small chunks, with plenty of time for the chorus (repetition) and musical interludes (relaxation)!
  • Using the cycle of the seasons to create the perfect, intuitive Map for your journey into 2023 and beyond.

Don’t just make a Vision Board, become a living Vision Board! Join Lora for her annual “Fall (Back) in Love with YOU!” retreat where you will create and embody a vision of exactly who and how you want to be in 2023. Be the first to know when registration opens by signing up at

Revenge Life Retreat & Photo-Shoot!

Are you resentful over how much you have done, or sacrificed, for others? Do you feel let down by your career, life, and relationships?

Have you ever thrown yourself into a self-help program, been determined to “fix yourself,” or promised that this was going to your year, only to have the same problems knock you down again?

You are not alone! For years, that’s what I did too. And until this, nothing worked for me either.

After my husband’s infidelity, I wanted,

Not just a Revenge Body,
Not just a Revenge Relationship,
I wanted a Revenge Life!

Not to show him, but to show myself that I was worth it, and that no matter what life brought my way, I would never betray myself again.

This is how I did it. Let me show you how!

In this glorious two-day retreat and photo shoot you will spend deep, delicious time figuring out and embodying exactly who you want to be next year.

Then, the talented Jiang Photography will capture that version of you in a stunning black and white photograph so no matter what comes your way, no matter how you are judged from others, and no matter how broken you feel, you will have proof – photographic evidence – of who you most authentically are and what you are capable of.

You will get:

  • A safe place to connect with others who are going through the same kinds of challenges you are going through,
  • Customized meditation, journaling, and time to create yourself as a living vision board, and your future,
  • Lessons on incorporating and using indigenous wisdom to bring peace, healing and prosperity in everyday life,
  • Your very own piece of movement/performance art that will reconnect you to your heart and your body,
  • Lessons in embodied, sensual movement,
  • The ability to ask questions, receive one-on-one coaching, and get feedback and insight from a trained professional who has been there too and has come successfully out the outer side.

For more information and to register for the Revenge Life Retreat & Photo-Shoot, go to:

Spots are limited and if you register before January 31st, you get everything for only $397!

Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!

Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!

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