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control emotions Flaunt06-22-22 How do I Control my Emotions After Infidelity? – Solo Show

Emotional flooding, depression, grief, and explosive rage are just some of the big emotions that the betrayed partner feels after infidelity. Triggers and anniversary dates are everywhere and just when you think you have things under control, you are flooded by a new wave of intrusive thoughts, grief, or pain. Here are three tips and one exercise that you can use to manage your big emotions whenever, and wherever they may strike.

Top Take-a-ways:

  • Moving out of a “quick fix” mentality and into a process-oriented mentality.
  • Why it’s okay to feel big emotions, it takes practice to learn how to feel emotions, and numbing emotions doesn’t work out in the end.
  • The top three ways to feel, process, and control your emotions: Leaning in, leaning out, and becoming a neutral observer.
  • Pendulation: A somatic, guided exercise to feel both the negative and the positive emotions that are lodged in your body right now, so you can release them, heal, and feel better today!

Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!

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