07-30-25 How to Heal After Betrayal & Reignite Your Sexual Vitality with Susan Bratton, “Intimacy Expert to Millions”
“Sex isn’t something you’re supposed to just know—it’s something you learn. And when you do, it changes everything.” – Susan Bratton
Betrayal can rupture more than trust—it can sever our connection to pleasure, to our bodies, and to our sense of self. But what if the path to healing included more joy, more intimacy, and the best sex of your life?
In this groundbreaking episode, Lora Cheadle sits down with Susan Bratton, bestselling author, sexual biohacker, and intimacy expert to millions, to explore what it really takes to heal after betrayal and reignite your desire—not just with a partner, but within yourself.
From Susan’s raw and personal story of infidelity, open marriage, and reclaiming her marriage and sexual sovereignty, to practical tools for somatic healing, bedroom communication, and extending your “sex span” as you age—this episode will change the way you think about sex, healing, and what’s truly possible.
Top Three Takeaways
- Healing Is a Mind-Body Journey
Healing from betrayal requires somatic integration, emotional processing, and relational repair. It’s not about “getting over it,” but about expanding through it. - Sexual Vitality is the Fourth Health Factor
Great sex isn’t a bonus—it’s essential. Just like sleep, nutrition, and exercise, regular intimate pleasure enhances immunity, cardiovascular health, emotional resilience, and brain function. - Communication Is the Cornerstone of Intimacy
From the Soulmate Embrace to the Magic Pill Method, Susan shares actionable tools that couples can use to restore trust, reawaken desire, and co-regulate nervous systems after betrayal.
Mentioned Resources & Free Downloads from Susan Bratton:
- BetterLover.com – Sign up for Susan’s free newsletter packed with pleasuring techniques, communication skills, libido tips, and more.
- Magic Pill Method – A free 5-step guide to talk through sexual shutdowns and reignite intimacy.
- Soulmate Embrace – Learn how to reconnect emotionally and physically through this grounding, oxytocin-boosting practice.
- The20 Store – Shop DESIRE and FLOW, Susan’s libido-enhancing and nitric oxide-boosting supplements for men and women.
- Better Lover YouTube Channel – Watch 400+ videos on lovemaking, healing after betrayal, intimacy techniques, and more.
- Susan’s Books & Programs – Including Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, and Revive Her Drive: PersonalLifeMedia.com
- Longevity Tips & Biohacking for Sex Span: Longevity Wins Substack
- Susan on Instagram: @SusanBratton
- Threads: @susanbratton
- LinkedIn: Susan Bratton
- More Info: SusanBratton.com
Who This Episode is For:
- Women healing from infidelity or betrayal
- Couples wanting to reignite intimacy and passion
- Anyone curious about sex as a tool for healing, empowerment, and longevity
- Professionals interested in sexual biohacking and regenerative intimacy
Favorite Quote:
“Why let cheating cheat you of the pleasure that will extend your health span? When you extend your sex span, you extend your life.”
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About Lora:
Lora Cheadle, JD, CHt is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, TEDx speaker, and author of FLAUNT! and It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal.
After uncovering her husband’s 15-year affair, she turned her own pain into purpose—helping high-achieving women reclaim their identity, power, and joy.
A trauma-aware coach, somatic therapist, and former attorney, Lora blends legal insight with emotional and spiritual healing for full-spectrum recovery.
She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
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