01-29-25 Understanding Trickle Truth: Navigating the Path to Full Disclosure After Infidelity
-With Lora’s Husband Shawn
What is “Trickle Truth,” and why does it often make the pain of infidelity worse? In this powerful episode, Lora Cheadle is joined by her husband, Shawn, to dive into the gradual, often reluctant disclosure of details about an affair. While trickle truth may stem from fear, shame, or the misguided belief that withholding details will minimize harm, it frequently prolongs pain, erodes trust, and re-traumatizes the betrayed partner.
Together, Lora and Shawn unpack the difficult yet essential process of uncovering the full truth after infidelity. They share actionable strategies to help couples move beyond betrayal and rebuild their relationship on a foundation of honesty, authenticity, and mutual growth.
Top Takeaways
- Creating Sacred Spaces for Difficult Conversations:
Lora and Shawn stress the importance of “sacred conversations”—safe, dedicated environments where couples can openly and vulnerably discuss tough truths without distractions. These intentional spaces foster clarity, compassion, and deeper understanding. - The Journey Towards Authenticity and Healing:
Lora and Shawn stress the importance of “sacred conversations”—safe, dedicated environments where couples can openly and vulnerably discuss tough truths without distractions. These intentional spaces foster clarity, compassion, and deeper understanding. - Sound Insight and Guidance for both the Betrayer and the Betrayed:
Whether you are the betrayed or the betrayer, this episode offers practical tools and emotional guidance to help you heal and rebuild. Lora and Shawn’s heartfelt discussion provides hope, clarity, and strategies to turn pain into purpose and restore trust.
Infidelity recovery is a difficult journey, but with the right tools and mindset, it can lead to personal transformation and a stronger, more authentic relationship. Tune in to this episode for real-life insights and actionable advice that will empower you to move forward with courage, honesty, and hope. Tune in and take the first step toward healing and creating a life you love after infidelity or betrayal. Let’s get started!
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If you’re ready to Rise Up & Reign as the creator and queen of your life, let’s talk. I will walk by your side and give you the perspective, permission, and wisdom needed to turn your betrayal experience into something constructive, empowering, and transformative in all the right ways.
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About Lora: Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace.
After being shattered by her husband’s fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose.
As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn’t have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy.
Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing.
She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life’s magic.
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