Wednesday 7am&7pmET

FLAUNT! Find Your Sparkle & Create a Life You Love After Infidelity or Betrayal

with Lora Cheadle, JD, CHt

Heal From Betrayal, Reclaim Your Power & Thrive!

Infidelity changes everything—but it doesn’t get to define you. This podcast is for women who refuse to stay stuck in heartbreak and are ready to rise, reclaim their power, and rebuild a life even greater than before. Here, we go beyond traditional recovery, cutting through the misinformation and outdated advice to deliver real strategies for healing, self-reclamation, and stepping into sovereignty.

Join Lora Cheadle, someone who has walked this path and emerged stronger, as she guides you through legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual insights designed to help you break free from self-doubt, restore your confidence, and rewrite your future—on your terms.

You are not broken—you are being broken open. It’s time to stop merely surviving and start reclaiming everything you were meant to be.

Go to www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and download your free Betrayal Recovery Roadmap & Tool Kit!

Join Lora’s Facebook Group, Affair Recovery For Women: Betrayed to Brilliant – Flourish After Betrayal, for support, inspiration, and a community of others who have been where you’re at right now.

Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery advocate, coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women move beyond healing and into full transformation after infidelity. More than just recovery, her work is about guiding women to come back home to themselves—reclaiming everything they let go of along the way, breaking free from repeating patterns, and stepping into a life of confidence, clarity, and joy. Through energetic, emotional, and ancestral healing, along with legal guidance to navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions, she empowers women to rise, rebuild, and create a future on their terms.

After being shattered by her husband’s fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand that betrayal doesn’t have to be the end—it can be the beginning of something greater. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, ensuring that women don’t just survive betrayal, but use it as a catalyst to build the secure, sovereign, and fulfilling lives they deserve.

As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive, on-demand legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support, so women have the real-time tools and guidance to navigate every stage of their journey. She believes that infidelity doesn’t have to mean losing everything—it can be the key to reclaiming more than they ever imagined.

Learn More at: www.LoraCheadle.com

Broadcasts Weekly Wednesday 7am/7pmET

Lora’s  Theme~ Betrayal Recovery

Wednesday 7am/7pmET

You Cheated. You’re Not a Monster. Here’s How to Understand Yourself and Become the Man You Meant to Be.

You’re not a monster because you cheated— you are a hurting human who never learned how to feel, name, and heal what’s going on inside. And understanding that and forgiving yourself is the key to rebuilding trust, whether you stay together or not.

This episode is a love letter—and a challenge—to the betrayer. Whether you’re the one who cheated or you’re the partner trying to understand how the person you love could hurt you so deeply, this conversation pulls back the curtain on what’s really going on inside the betraying partner. Lora shares honest, vulnerable insights from walking beside her husband through his infidelity, exploring why most men genuinely don’t know why they cheated, how shame and unresolved boyhood wounds fuel destructive coping, and what it actually takes to become trustworthy again. You’ll learn how to move from “I’m a monster” to “I made a devastating mistake—and I’m willing to change,” so both of you can stop walking on eggshells and start moving toward clarity, accountability, and healing.

Top 3 Takeaways

1. Why “I don’t know why I did it” is often true—just not the whole truth.
   Most betrayers genuinely don’t know the root cause of their cheating because they were never taught to identify or communicate their emotions. Until they can name what they’re feeling—rejection, shame, emasculation, grief—cheating will continue to be a maladaptive coping mechanism, not a “character flaw problem” to shame away.
2. Your actions don’t define your core—but your accountability does.
   There’s a profound difference between being a cheater and having cheated. Lora breaks down how to step out of the “cheater” identity and back into integrity through nervous system regulation, consistent follow-through (“do what you say you’ll do”), and small, repeated acts of honor that show you’re becoming truly trustworthy again.
3. Healing requires feeling it all—without fleeing, fixing, or deflecting.
   From the sticky note that said “Feel it all” to simple somatic practices like standing in your integrity, brushing off old attachments, and speaking from your gut instead of your head, you’ll learn concrete ways to sit with your own shame, regret, and pain and hold space for your partner’s rage and grief—without collapsing, defending, or running away.

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Favorite Quotes
“This isn’t about getting your wife to trust you again. It’s about becoming a man who is truly trustworthy—and honoring yourself enough to live that way.”
“You’re not a monster—you’re a human in pain who chose a harmful coping mechanism. Now the question is: who do you want to be from here?”

Free FLAUNT! Holiday Reset & Book Club
If this episode hit home, your next step is simple:
Join Lora on December 1st for a free live FLAUNT! Book Club & Workshop — a Holiday Reset designed to move you from performance to presence in real time.

You’ll:

• Work with practices from FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy & Spiritual Self
• Get tools to break your performance scripts and over-functioning habits
• Have space to decompress after Thanksgiving and prepare for the rest of the season in a different way
• Practice embodying presence so you can actually feel the joy you’re creating

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You don’t need to be “caught up” or have read the whole book. Just bring yourself, your copy, and a willingness to show up as you are.

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    About Lora:

    Lora Cheadle, JD, CHt is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, TEDx speaker, and author of FLAUNT! and It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal.

    After uncovering her husband’s 15-year affair, she turned her own pain into purpose—helping high-achieving women reclaim their identity, power, and joy.

    A trauma-aware coach, somatic therapist, and former attorney, Lora blends legal insight with emotional and spiritual healing for full-spectrum recovery.

    She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!

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    Are you ready to Rise, Reclaim, and Reign as the Queen of Your Life? Infidelity may have shaken your world, but it does not define you. You are powerful. You are worthy. And you are more than capable of creating a future filled with confidence, clarity, and joy.

    I’m here to walk beside you, giving you the perspective, permission, and proven tools to transform betrayal into your greatest awakening. Whether through one-on-one coaching or my on-demand Affair Recovery Programs, you’ll gain the guidance and support to untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and step boldly into your next chapter.

    Your transformation starts now! Learn more at www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com and visit www.LoraCheadle.com for even more resources and inspiration.

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    Books By Lora

    

    • International Book Award, Finalist Motivational Self-Help, 2021
    • Tattered Cover Bestseller, 2019

    Have you spent your life playing by the rules, only to realize those rules weren’t made for you? What if you could break free—from expectations, from betrayal, from the roles you were taught to play—and reclaim your true self?

    FLAUNT! is your guide to stripping away societal conditioning, healing from the heartbreak of betrayal, and rediscovering the fierce, confident woman you were born to be. With humor, wisdom, and powerful, actionable steps, Lora Cheadle empowers you to rise above the narratives that have confined you and boldly choreograph a life that is smart, sexy, spiritual, and uniquely your own.

    It’s time to stop living for others and start living for you.

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    It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive 

    Burnout isn’t just exhaustion—it’s a betrayal of your time, energy, and trust. This essential guide redefines burnout, exposing its hidden roots and equipping individuals, teams, and leaders with five powerful tools to reclaim their passion, purpose, and well-being.

    If you’re ready to break free from burnout and step into a life of clarity, confidence, and fulfillment, this book is your roadmap.

    Available now on Amazon. Download your free guide, BURNOUT UNCOVERED: Fostering Candid Conversations for Teams at www.ItsNotBurnoutItsBetrayal.com.

     

    Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!