FLAUNT! Find Your Sparkle & Create a Life You Love After Infidelity or Betrayal Archives with Lora Cheadle
Is “Once a Cheater Always a Cheater” True? – Will He Cheat Again?
01-10-24 Is “Once a Cheater Always a Cheater” True? – Will He Cheat Again? Let’s break down the saying, once a cheater, always a cheater. How do you know when is it true and when is it not true? What are the signs that your partner will or will not cheat again? Is...
Understanding Anger After Infidelity – Using Your Anger as a Catalyst for Change
01-10-24 Understanding Anger After Infidelity – Using Your Anger as a Catalyst for Change Let’s talk about anger after infidelity and betrayal. How much is too much? When are you wallowing in anger and when are you justifiably angry? What does it mean when you “bash...
How to Manifest & Create New Year’s Resolutions That Work After Infidelity
01-03-24 How to Manifest & Create New Year’s Resolutions That Work After Infidelity (Why Dreaming Big Shuts You Down & How to Manifest Miracles) Dreaming big is great, but it doesn’t work. When you dream too big, you pinch off what’s available and accessible...
Self-Care As a Way of Life
12-27-23 Self-Care As a Way of Life Sure, self- care is a great way to recover after infidelity or betrayal, but to be your best, to feel good, live fully, and have the energy to connect or take care of others, you must take care of yourself first! Here are ideas on...
Six Tips to Navigate the Holidays After Betrayal
12-20-23 Six Tips to Navigate the Holidays After Betrayal Are you worried about navigating the holiday season after infidelity or betrayal? These six tips will help you navigate the season with ease, so you can find some joy, connection, and grace despite the stress...
Find Rest, Stillness & Inner Peace
12-13-23 Find Rest, Stillness & Inner Peace While most everyone says they want inner peace, very few know how to achieve it. Learning how to develop the skills and habits necessary to find and reclaim inner peace is essential. Especially during this time of year...
Parenting Through Infidelity & Betrayal
12-06-23 Parenting Through Infidelity & Betrayal What do you tell your kids about infidelity? What if the affair partner is going to be involved in your children’s life? How do you explain your emotions to your child? How do you pull it together enough to parent...
Challenging Stereotypes & Judgments Around Infidelity
11-29-23 Challenging Stereotypes & Judgments Around Infidelity Infidelity and betrayal are hard enough without the added stigma and shame of being “the betrayed partner” or being married to “a cheating man.” In this episode we will dispelling the stereotypes,...
Harnessing the Power of Hope and Gratitude in Healing After Infidelity or Betrayal
11-22-23 Harnessing the Power of Hope and Gratitude in Healing After Infidelity or Betrayal In this episode, we'll explore the transformative power of positivity and the importance of maintaining hope in the face of adversity. We'll uncover how negative thinking can...
Who Should I Tell About the Affair? How Do I Do It & What Do I Say?
11-15-23 Who Should I Tell About the Affair? How Do I Do It & What Do I Say? Finding our about your partner’s infidelity is bad enough, but with taboo topics such as this there is often an added layer of concern. What if you tell and people cut you and your...
How to Get Your Needs Met – Find Your Voice & Advocate for You!
11-08-23 How to Get Your Needs Met – Find Your Voice & Advocate for You! Learning to take care of yourself and get your own needs met is a skill that many of us lack. If you have ever felt a lack of clarity over what you want or how to get it, then this show is...
Giving Up Too Much of Yourself? Why We Do It and How to Stop
11-01-23 Giving Up Too Much of Yourself? Why We Do It and How to Stop Are you betraying yourself? Many women are taught to be “good girls,” to please others, conform to standards, and to perform up to somebody else’s standards. But living like this is a betrayal of...
Mediation or Litigation? What’s the Best Way to Divorce or Legally Separate?
10-25-23 Mediation or Litigation? What’s the Best Way to Divorce or Legally Separate? Whether or not you are contemplating divorce or legal separation, it pays to know your rights, options, and opportunities. In today’s show we will talk about non-attorney mediated...
Make Meaning of Your Partner’s Infidelity & Thrive!
10-18-23 Make Meaning of Your Partner’s Infidelity & Thrive! Finding out about your partner’s Infidelity is likely one of the worst things that’s ever happened to you. But how you let it define you is up to you. Looking back, will your partner’s betrayal be one of...
How do you Decide to Stay or Leave After Infidelity?
10-11-23 How do you Decide to Stay or Leave After Infidelity? “Should I stay, or should I go?” is one of the most important questions you will have to answer after learning of your partner’s infidelity. And even though most women want to make the decision quickly, the...
Holding Your Cheating Partner Accountable for Their Actions
09-13-23 Holding Your Cheating Partner Accountable for Their Actions Whether you are working it out, trying to save your marriage, or just need a healthier person to co-parent with, learning how to hold your cheating partner accountable for his or her actions is...
Bringing Your Partner on Board so You Can Both Heal After Infidelity
09-06-23 Bringing Your Partner on Board so You Can Both Heal After Infidelity Frustrated that your partner, who cheated on you, and now isn’t stepping up to the plate or doing their part to heal? In this episode, we dive deep into the how and why of bringing your...
Using Compartmentalization to Help You Heal
08-30-23 Using Compartmentalization to Help You Heal What is compartmentalization? Is it good or is it bad? Is it something the cheater used to cheat, or is it something you can use to heal? Surprisingly, the answer is both! Here’s what you need to know about both the...
Resources, Community, & Empowerment – Get the Help You Need!
08-23-23 Resources, Community, & Empowerment – Get the Help You Need! It’s one thing to talk about empowerment, but it’s another thing to move through the intimidation and fear to get the assistance, support, and education you need. Today’s show features three...
Forgiving Yourself – Especially When You’ve Done Nothing Wrong
08-16-23 Forgiving Yourself – Especially When You’ve Done Nothing Wrong We hear a lot about the importance of forgiving the betraying partner, but what about forgiving ourselves? Especially when we’ve done nothing wrong. Forgiveness is a confusing, often circular, and...